About our feelings: Back to the basics. Most of our negative thought/feeling is caused by 2 things: How is it possible? Unease, anxiety, tension, stress, worry, expectations, hope, and even all forms of fear about x,y, and z are caused by being too much in the mind-made fictional future, and not enough in the present […]
Zen is easy but difficult, simple but complex, exciting but boring Zen is really just two things, by two, I mean one, by one I mean zero, and by zero, I mean 100, maybe 10,000, maybe I mean infinity. The two things are meditation and experiencing the realities of the moment. 1-Meditation: […]
About Mind #1 Our mind is just an instrument, a tool to be used wisely for specific tasks such as analysis and decision. When the task is completed, don't let your mind control you 24/7. I would say that around 90% of our huge amount of thinking is repetitive, wishful thinking, memory flares, and, if […]
How to stay serene The following are so-called “virtues” or skills that one should learn and practice in order to remain serene in most situations. What is happening is meant to be even if we don’t get what we want or if we […]
Managing our restless moody mind It is mainly our moods as much as anything else that determine our quality of life. As we wander through many daily moods, it is important to remember that each mood positive and negative involves a choice. We have the choice to assume responsibility for the genesis and content of […]
THE POWER OF SMILING: when, how, and why Most of us are resistant to doing this exercise. We feel it is fake or unnatural to smile w/o a reason. ….and yet it is recommended not only by psychotherapists (Ref 1) but also described in Zen literature (Ref 2). When to smile? Our face is a […]
EXPECTATIONS: HIDDEN SOURCES OF WORRIES Expectations are true desires projected in the future, and, like any desires they may cause suffering. Of course, we cannot live w/o expectations regarding our loved ones, self, work, events, and life in general.. […]
THE POWER OF THE 6 PARAMITAS or transcendent perfections The six paramitas, or “perfections,” hold great significance because they are the fundamental guiding principles for Zen practitioners. By cultivating the paramitas — generosity, discipline, patience, energy, meditation, and wisdom — we can experience profound benefits in our personal growth, spiritual journey, and relationship with others. […]
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