Oakville Zen Meditation

Dharma Lecture

#466 Zen is easy but difficult, complex but simple, exciting but boring Sept 18 23

                     Zen is easy but difficult, simple but complex, exciting but boring Zen is really just two things,  by two,  I mean one, by one I mean zero, and by zero, I mean 100, maybe 10,000, maybe I mean infinity.  The two things are meditation and experiencing the realities of the moment.                                                                                                                                                             1-Meditation:  […]

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#465 Zen facts: to the point About the mind#1 Sept/10/23

About Mind: Zen point of view Our mind is just an instrument, a tool to be used wisely for specific tasks such as analysis and decision. When the task is completed, don't let your mind control you 24/7. I would say that around 90% of our huge amount of thinking is repetitive, wishful thinking, memory […]

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464 How to stay serene 03/9/23

                        How to stay serene  The following are so-called “virtues” or skills that one should learn and practice in order to remain serene in most situations.    What is happening is meant to be even if we don’t get what we want or if we […]

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#463 Managing our restless moody mind 26/8/23

  Managing our restless moody mind It is mainly our moods as much as anything else that determine our quality of life. As we wander through many daily moods, it is important to remember that each mood positive and negative involves a choice. We have the choice to assume responsibility for the genesis and content of […]

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V4 How to stay calm: an excellent 6min. video blending Stoicism & Zen
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#462 THE POWER of SMILING: how, when& why

                THE POWER OF  SMILING: when, how, and why  Most of us are resistant to doing this exercise. We feel it is fake or unnatural to smile w/o a reason. ….and yet it is recommended not only by psychotherapists (Ref 1)  but also described in Zen literature (Ref 2).  When to smile? Our face is a […]

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#461 Expectation: the hidden cause of worries 13/08/23

EXPECTATIONS: HIDDEN SOURCES OF WORRIES Expectations are true desires projected in the future, and, like any desires they may cause suffering.                Of course, we cannot live w/o expectations regarding our loved ones, self, work, events, and life in general..                   […]

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#460 The 6 Paramitas or Perfections July 6th 23

  THE POWER OF THE 6 PARAMITAS or  transcendent perfections The six paramitas, or “perfections,” hold great significance because they are the fundamental guiding principles for Zen practitioners. By cultivating the paramitas — generosity, discipline, patience, energy, meditation, and wisdom — we can experience profound benefits in our personal growth, spiritual journey, and relationship with others. […]

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V3 An outstanding 30 min. video from Alan Watts on everything you need to know about Zen "The Gateless Gate" July 29th 23

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#459 LEANING TO PRACTICE LOVING KINDNESS or METTA July 29 23

  LEARNING TO PRACTICE LOVING KINDNESS  OR METTA In our Western culture, we find it difficult to direct loving-kindness and compassion to ourselves.                                       We may feel that we are unworthy, or that it is too egocentric or […]

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